Power and Control My day started early as usual, 4:30 am with my first task to make the coffee, feed my beautiful little rescue golden retriever and take him our for his business and then settle in to catching up on e-mails and looking at the markets and the new posts on a couple of gay and bi web sites. Just as the lap top was firing up my cell phone gave me the familiar double buzz indicating an incoming text. It was from my friend Don, a guy I have seen for over three years now and it simply inquired “You home?” That loaded two word message brought to mind my relationship with a couple of… 阅读更多内容

River Run My gurlfriend Tamie and I decided to make a run to the river and cruise the casinos last weekend. We had arranged to meet up with two other gurls, Michelle and Monica. When we arrived we decided to go to a couple of the off scene bars and see who was lurking about. These bars are not specifically gay bars but are more alternative scene bars where people looking to link up will go to get away from the main gambling crowds. Two in particular offer happy hunting for sissies in search of horny traveling salesmen, retired bachelors and other guys who would not be above getting a quick fa… 阅读更多内容

House of Suds I know what you are thinking, another story about cruising for hot cock at local bars. Nope, not quite. That does work and if you have the right kinds of places you can find guys who are looking for opportunity sex in most bars, even the ones that are not specifically tagged and listed as gay or alternative. A lot of bars catering to the traveling crowd also cater to the cruising crowd and they can be hot on occasion depending on who is in town and why. But this one is not about cruising hot bars or bath houses, not even about adult book stores or truck stops and rest stops. Thi… 阅读更多内容

Suck-o-matic I met Milo last year, or more like we simultaneously cruised each other at a quiet gas station. He caught my eye as I exited the front door of the store and his green eyes held my gaze for an uncomfortably long time as I held the door for him to enter. I knew I had to linger in the lot and see if I could make a second contact and at least give him my number. He is a young Hispanic guy, about 5’9”, boxer build, muscular, was wearing jeans and a t-shirt and boots and had obviously just come from work. This is exactly the kind of sperm donor I seek for recreational oral sex. Horny s… 阅读更多内容

Doctor M. I guess I should start at the beginning as the details pretty much direct how my early life landed me where I am today. I came from a family that was not known for good decisions. My mom had me at 15, shortly thereafter she was tried as an adult for rolling a John and spent the next 12 years in a state prison for women. I was raised in part by her mother and when she died I went to an aunt who was as wrecked as my mommy dearest. When mommy dearest got out of the can she came back to our small logging town, got a job as a waitress at a truck stop diner/bar and took up hooking to help… 阅读更多内容

Rhett Cheer I was heading back home from Southern California when I had an urgent need to both pee and recharge with some coffee. The nearest spot was just over the river so I held out until I made the exit, then dashed in to a truck stop and parked. I made the dash in to the men’s room not thinking that I had left my sweat shirt in the car and was wearing a black tank top with a rainbow speckled butterfly emblazoned on the front. Oh well. When you gotta go you gotta go! Anyway, I made it to the pissers, took my little tool out and made my deposit just in time. I was not paying much attention… 阅读更多内容

Rhett Cheer I was heading back home from Southern California when I had an urgent need to both pee and recharge with some coffee. The nearest spot was just over the river so I held out until I made the exit, then dashed in to a truck stop and parked. I made the dash in to the men’s room not thinking that I had left my sweat shirt in the car and was wearing a black tank top with a rainbow speckled butterfly emblazoned on the front. Oh well. When you gotta go you gotta go! Anyway, I made it to the pissers, took my little tool out and made my deposit just in time. I was not paying much attention… 阅读更多内容

Fraternal Order I live in a town where there are two types of guys. We have outdoors types, Levi and flannel topped by Stetsons and Resistol hats and then we have the car guys. My area is a Mecca for classic car restoration guys and they love to cruise in their cars, show them off and share tips and ideas with their fellow car guys. And then there is me, and I don’t fit either group but find myself more than welcome among the crowd. And on occasion a guy will make me for a queer and the conversation shifts from Hurst shifters to another kind of stick shift and I get busy. You may be surprised… 阅读更多内容

Brick Hard Ron might be the kind of guy who would intimidate a lot of queens at first sight. He is a working man, has been all of his life, standing 6’ 2” and a bit over 210 lbs but not much fat, just all muscle. His burly, hairy body shows the effects of years of hard labor in the hot sun. As a mason and later as an independent masonry contractor he has been burnt by the sun and refined by heavy lifting it to a fine figure of a man. Even at the age of 73 he is still able to keep up both at work and in the sperm shooting arena. I first met him at an old gas station on a less used state highw… 阅读更多内容

Match Up George would not impress you as the kind of man who would be successful hooking up at cruising spots. His looks don’t exactly make him a model for Advocate or any of the other gay mags focusing on youth and looks. His look was more of what you would expect from a middle aged trucker, someone who spent hours behind the wheel and ate in the truck stops and paid the price for it. When I met him it was probably unlikely that we would have hooked up but it did happen. I am glad it did. Late one afternoon I swung by a local older truck stop to dash in for a drink and gas up. As usual the… 阅读更多内容

Nightly Ritual For many years, from the mid 1970’s through mid 1990’s I was partnered with a great man, a massive bear of a guy who was the center of my world. Irv was 6’3”, usually weighed in at about 270 or more, big hands, big feet, big everything and a very energetic, strong total top of a man. The thought of me trying to reverse rolls on him never came up. He was the perfect match to my natural bottom nature and physique and I could handle his size and strength as well as his kinky imagination. Life has not been the same since I lost him in 2003 and I have yet to find anyone who could fi… 阅读更多内容

Black Caddy Daddy Over the many years of cruising I have learned how to look for the signs of places and men who are looking for a little action. Learning to loiter with intent and recognize those who are loitering with intent is a more exact science now days but it can still be done. We live in a surveillance society now with cameras, security guards, lighting and cops watching public places so the days of open cruising are long gone. If you take your time, are cautious and learn from small mistakes you can avoid the big mistakes while at the same time hooking up with some consistency. Close… 阅读更多内容

Homo Depot Guys who have known me for a long time say I am always cruising. I am not so sure of the “always” but I do spend a lot of my time searching for straight men in need of relief. Some of the best hunting grounds I have found are anywhere construction type guys can be found. Getting close enough to signal and connect is a fine art and is not without risks but if you understand your target and how to read them this kind of full contact sport can be both safer and much more productive. I find that any place blue collar guys can be found in numbers is worthwhile to scope out. Here are a f… 阅读更多内容

Aves de la noche Birds of the night in Latin American culture relates to the complicated relationship between machismo and homosexuality. In a culture that emphasizes the manliness of most men homosexuality the acceptance of the ****** is a complicated but ever present issue. Gay men generally present as feminine but are very careful to segregate themselves from the overwhelmingly masculine majority. There are circumstances where the two cultures do cross but the rules are complicated and the means very well regulated. There are places where macho's can go to get relief from gay men and crui… 阅读更多内容

A Hole in the Wall I my town down in the original part of town there are some classic old buildings that were originally built around 1910. This is your typical “downtown” with a main street, shops and stores, a couple of old bars and taverns, great food places and thankfully it has made a revival over the past few years. One of the buildings is a classic old hotel with an entrance facing the state highway. On one side of the entry is the hotel lobby and in a separate bay is a classic old saloon. This is not going to attract the local gentry but it is a good place for guys to stop and get a q… 阅读更多内容

The Ten Code Last November I pulled off the freeway short of town in order to stop and get a drink and pee break at a local truck stop. This place is a favorite of mine because it is an old classic from Rt 66 days and although older and not quite as spiffy as the new corporate stops it has a certain class and air about it that draws me in. The diner is excellent with a mix of American, Mexican and South Asian food. The curry is to die for as is the chef. Every time I go in there I make a subtle pass at him and he tells me in his thick Hindi accent that his wife would not approve. This inside… 阅读更多内容

Desi Daddy Dedication I guess I will have to start at the beginning so I don’t lose anyone along the way. My path in the gay scene has been a long one. If you have kept up with my writings you have a feel for my beginnings and some of the bumps and curves along the way. I try to detail some of my quirks for you so you get a sense of where I have been and what led me to my current life. So in the beginning, in high school, my oral and anal cherries were taken by two older boys. You know that from previous writings. In that first year and a half I satisfied two teenage boys with lingerie fetish… 阅读更多内容

Desi Daddy Dedication I guess I will have to start at the beginning so I don’t lose anyone along the way. My path in the gay scene has been a long one. If you have kept up with my writings you have a feel for my beginnings and some of the bumps and curves along the way. I try to detail some of my quirks for you so you get a sense of where I have been and what led me to my current life. So in the beginning, in high school, my oral and anal cherries were taken by two older boys. You know that from previous writings. In that first year and a half I satisfied two teenage boys with lingerie fetish… 阅读更多内容

Frontage Road Hot Loads Where I live here in the desert Southwest the freeways bypassed a lot of older small towns and stops along the way. Many survive but are quiet for the most part. Vast stretches of older state highways are now just frontage roads for the freeways and serve the isolated communities along the way. Very often guys pull off the freeway and drive stretches of these older roads for a change of scenery and the thrill of driving on old Rt 66 or one of the other classic routes. There are loads of places to stop, park and get out for a smoke or a stretch and there is a lot of his… 阅读更多内容

Alpha/Beta Dynamics I often get asked about my approach to alpha males and how to make the dynamics work between alpha and beta males when cruising or in a social scene. Hooking up or initiating a contact that will lead to something more is harder than it seems. I hope that I can give some perspective on this and share some of my experience. All too often I hear from guys who bump in to the Ying to their Yang and yet are unable to make a physical or social connection happen. Guys who are versatile and looking for versatile action have a far harder task as I hope to make clearer as you read… 阅读更多内容